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Finding it hard to speak up?

  • Writer: Praise Olorunosebi
    Praise Olorunosebi
  • Jan 30, 2024
  • 2 min read

The ability to speak up for yourself and effectively communicate your worth is paramount. Yet, many of us struggle with asserting ourselves, fearing rejection, or the discomfort of confrontation. However, finding the courage to advocate for yourself is not only essential for personal growth but also crucial for professional success.
The Power of Speaking Up
Scriptural Insight: "For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind." - 2 Timothy 1:7 (NKJV)
This scripture reminds us that fear is not from God. It encourages us to embrace courage, love, and clarity of thought. When we speak up for ourselves at work, we are exercising this power and soundness of mind. Remember, you have unique skills and insights to offer, and your voice matters.
Selling Your Abilities with Integrity
Scriptural Insight: "Do you see a man who excels in his work? He will stand before kings; He will not stand before unknown men." - Proverbs 22:29 (NKJV)
This verse highlights the importance of excellence in our work. When we excel, our abilities naturally shine, and we gain recognition. However, it's crucial to sell ourselves with integrity. Be honest about your accomplishments and contributions. Don't exaggerate or take credit for others' work. Trust that your genuine efforts will speak for themselves.
Saying No When Necessary
Scriptural Insight: "Let your ‘Yes’ be ‘Yes,’ and your ‘No,’ ‘No.’ For whatever is more than these is from the evil one." - Matthew 5:37 (NKJV)
This can be challenging but learning to say no is an essential aspect of self-advocacy. I had to learn that its about setting boundaries and prioritizing your well-being. Remember, saying no to certain tasks or commitments doesn't make you incompetent or unhelpful. It demonstrates self-awareness and respect for your limitations. By saying no when overwhelmed, you preserve your energy and focus on tasks where you can truly excel.
Overcoming the Fear of Speaking Up
Scriptural Insight: "Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you." - Deuteronomy 31:6 (NIV)
Fear of rejection or confrontation often holds us back from speaking up. However, this scripture reminds us of divine companionship and support. Knowing that we are not alone can embolden us to step out of our comfort zones. Remember, speaking up doesn't guarantee immediate success, but it does align with personal growth and empowerment.
Conclusion
In conclusion, this is definitely not a walk in the park and something I am also working on but having the courage to speak up at work and sell your abilities is essential for personal and professional advancement. Drawing inspiration from scriptures, we learn to embrace courage, integrity, and self-awareness. By speaking up with confidence, selling our abilities with integrity, and knowing when to say no, we navigate the workplace with authenticity and resilience.
So, as you navigate your career journey, remember to lean on these timeless truths. Embrace your worth, speak up boldly, and trust that your efforts, rooted in integrity, will pave the way for success.


 
 
 

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